New Mom Musts
I loved being a new mom, but man, it was HARD. There’s no question. You’ve got a beautiful new baby. You’re all hopped up on hormones. You haven’t slept a wink. And your body? Well everything is weird. Like, really weird. But there are a few new mom musts that can help.
First, know you’re not alone.
Yep. It seems simple but there are times when you feel like you are ALONE. The feeling comes at weird times. Like the very, absolute middle of the night. When the baby is crying and it feels like you are the only person in the world up. Or in the middle of the day when you’re staring at this quiet little person feeling line no one has ever felt this way before. And suddenly you’re crying for no reason other than the baby is perfect and you made him or her. You’re not alone. I get you. Just as other moms got me. Take a deep breath. You’ve got this.
Don’t worry about the mess.
Momming is messy work. The day sprints by and you wonder where time has gone. Spills, stains and messes are status quo with a little one on your hands. Plus, there’s the you know – the poosplosion. There. I said it. I’m going to give you one of my favourite mom tips. OxiClean™ Multi-Purpose Baby Stain Remover. I swear by this stuff. From those early “onesie off from the top down” days to the current potty training woes, this 100 per cent dye and chlorine-free Powder and Spray to be gentle on your baby’s washables while being tough on your messiest baby stains. Seriously – it works.
Schedule Some Down Time
I’m not the best at this one, but I try, because I know what happens when you put everyone else first. Nobody wins. I urge you to carve out some time that’s just for you. Between feeding, changing diapers and lulling your baby to sleep, you may find yourself emotionally and physically exhausted. So squeeze out a few minutes. Baby in the bouncy seat? The swing? Napping? Do a little something you love. Read a mag or paint you nails. Catch up with a friend. Drink a tea…while it’s hot. Even just 10 minutes for yourself will make a huge difference.
‘Scuse you, Baby
I recently spent half the night up with a crying 3 year old. And then, after 2 hours – two witching hours – the culprit for the late night disruption revealed itself. In a few long, and I mean looooonnngggg toots. Yep. She kept the house up over toots. I lost a night of sleep over gas. I should have known. A gassy tummy has plagued her since the NICU. Back in the early days, we used all the gas relieving tricks. We kept her upright, massaged her belly and hoped. But there were times we needed a little more help. One of her NICU caregivers recommended swore by Ovol® Drops. We used them often. They provide gentle and fast relief of colic, bloating or gas by helping to break up gas bubbles to relieve discomfort caused by trapped gas – making it easier for a baby to pass gas and burp at feeding time.
Get plenty of rest

You’re tired. I know, you are tired. So tired. I’m still tired. A shift in your sleeping pattern, or overall lack of sleep, can be hard. It can be traumatically hard. If your baby likes to nap in the morning, nap with them! Forget the chores. Abandon the home cooked meals. Ditch that picture of supermom you have in your head. Just rest. Try to sleep. If you can’t sleep, just breathe. Even if you’re not actually sleeping, enjoying the downtime will give you a boost. See point two for some ideas.
Soothe Teething Gums
Crying, drooling and tears can make teething quite the ordeal – for you and the baby. Gently rubbing your baby’s gums can help to ease your baby’s discomfort. Try a chilled washcloth or teething ring to soothe the pain. If your baby is especially cranky, try using an homeopathic remedy like Baby Orajel™ Naturals Nighttime Teething Gel. With the soothing power of Chamomilla (commonly known as Chamomile or magic) and passion flower, this product helps to relieve teething pain and discomfort and calm the restlessness that comes from teething so that your baby can get a good night’s rest.
Getting back in the game
And by game, I mean, you know, GAME. I’m just going to throw this one out there for when you’re ready. Many women experience vaginal dryness after childbirth. So grown up time doesn’t seem quite as fun as you remember. (It’s ok, we’ve all been there). That doesn’t mean you have to give up on getting close. Water based lube like Trojan™ H2O can help get you back in the game. Water-based lubricants with hyaluronic moisturizer (which locks in up to 1000x more moisture and hydration), let you enjoy alone time with your partner without having to think about all the things that, you know, happened down there.
Don’t worry, you won’t need new mom musts for long. You’ll still feel alone at times, let the mess go, deal with gas, feel oh so tired, manage dental issues (Hello Tooth Fairy) and wo–nder if things will ever be like they were before kids. But you’ll also belong to the best club in the world.
Welcome to Momdom.
To help you take care of everything else happening at home, we’re giving away some essentials for keeping the rest of the family clean and fresh – cause you know, when there’s a baby to snuggle, the laundry sometimes has to wait.

- Arm & HammerTM Plus OxiCleanTM Cold Water Power Paks
- OxiCleanTM HD Liquid Laundry Detergent
- Arm & HammerTM Baking Soda
- Arm & HammerTM SpinbrushTM battery powered toothbrush The Ultimate Spider-Man TM
- OrajelTM Spider-ManTM Anticavity Fluoride Toothpaste
Total Value: Approx. $35
Melanie from mommydo.com writes about parenting, food, neat stuff and the unexpected beauty in life, all while juggling work, family life and spreading awareness and raising funds for Williams Syndrome.




Keep the newborn into a routine as much possible!!
Don’t stress over the little things, and try to get rest when baby is sleeping.
Don’t stress over the little things, and try to get rest when baby is sleeping.
My best tip is to nap when the baby does/
To not sweat the small things and when the baby naps its best for you to.
get your rest when the baby naps
My best tip is when the baby is sleeping don’t do the laundry but instead take a nap or “Me” time.
Always have an ample amount of babywipes on hand.
Ask for help if/when you need it.
Don’t sweat the small stuff
Don’t try to be perfect because that will wear off
Learn by your mistakes
Best tip is to keep a routine and to ask for help when you need it!
My tip is not to compare yourself or your little one’s progress to others. It just causes undo stress.
sleep when tiny baby sleeps
My best tips are to let others help, & sleep when baby sleeps!
Don’t stress and enjoy for little one. They grow up so fast.
My tip is to accept any help that is offered
Ask for help if you need it, don’t get overwhelmed!
With all four of my kids I liked to try and establish some kind of a routine as soon as possible. Also never be afraid to ask for help, especially with cleaning!
My oldest son just turned 2 today and my baby boy is 6 months old and man I’m tired too! I didn’t know exhaustion like this existed but I also didn’t know love like this did either until I had my boys. My best tip is to try to set a sleeping routine that works well for you and your family. Somedays it’s harder to stick to than others but if you give it your best go the results will pay off. If my boys don’t get a restful nights sleep they’re off the whole next day. I see it effect their mood, appetite and behaviour. And snuggles…. don’t forget to set lots of time aside and soak up all that tiny love! Thanks so much for so many great product reviews and advice. Some I have used or am currently using but one like Trojan H2O I didn’t know about. Good luck to all the tired (but happy) parents out there!
I am a mother of twins and although my are long since grown and on their own I can tell you that it’s the small moments in time that you’ll treasure and hold on to in your memories. Take hold of those moments for before you know it they have grown taller than you. I’m blessed to have 4 beautiful and healthy grandchildren and take advantage of every kiss and snuggle I can get. Many thanks.
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Parenting is tough work. Enjoy the small moments as they will go by very quickly.
Rest when you can and take help from others!!!
with the first it was sleep when the baby sleeps, but now that I am due with baby no 2 and then my toddler will be 3, I don’t know how that’s possible, so I am looking for tips for a second time mom
My best tip is don’t be afraid to ask for (or accept) help
Mine is trust your instincts
Mine is sleep when baby sleeps
My tips are sleeping when the baby ssleep and about ask for help when you are unsure
My best tip to a new mom is to get lots of rest by sleeping when the baby sleeps or get someone to help you.It is so important to get rested and strong again.
Rest when baby sleeps
My tip is to join mommy communities
Cook ahead with freezer meals and do one load of laundry a day.
My new mom tip is to sleep when baby sleeps
Don’t sweat the small stuff, even though you’re a new mom, you know your child best and time really does pass quickly!
Besos Sarah
Journeys of The Zoo
House work can wait, sleep when you can, give your body time to figure out nursing, it doesnt happen over night, ask for help when you need. Take in every cuddle, one day… They will be a teenager and not want them anymore.
My best tip is to nap when the baby does, and accept help.
When trying to get ready to leave the house give yourself extra time and bring a second set of hands if you can. Also, carry a shirt for you and changes of clothes for baby.
go with the flow, do what feels right, sleep when baby sleeps and remember to eat !!!!!
The days are long but the years are short!
When the baby has a nap take one also.
Take time to stretch and meditate.
Don’t expect perfection, you will just drive yourself crazy.
My New Mom tips & tricks would be to 1) sleep when the baby sleeps 2) don’t worry about keeping the house completely tidy 3) have some “out of the freezer” meals on hand e.g. double a casserole recipe and freeze one – then you only cook once but get double the meals 4) have some fresh fruit, yogurt, crackers etc on hand because you may forget to eat or make a meal for yourself during the day and at least these will give you some healthy snack options 5) shower with the baby in a portable bouncer chair, bassinette etc – I often found that my babies would fall asleep with the soothing sound of the shower and the warmth of the bathroom, so I could really enjoy my shower and then have a little spare time after while they kept sleeping for a bit. Oh, and enjoy it all, it goes by so fast!!
Remember to get rest and don’t stress over not doing everything perfectly.
My tip is to ask for help and get rest when ever you can!!
Take help when it’s offered and don’t feel guilty! we all need help now and then.